Can I sue my ex to terminate deferred child support, now that children are grown and she withheld them from me in violation

Q:  I am divorced 20 years and paid reduced child support of 800 a month for 20 yrs (200 month was deferred, which I have now been paying for 7 years, half the sum due). Ex lives out of state and never allowed visitation but I continued to pay. Kids are now in mid 20's and I have no relations with them due to her violation of decree even though I have lived up to every stipulation. Is it possible to sue her to terminate the remaining sum due now since it wont affect the kids, is only for her benefit and she violated every single stipulation without regard for the law or the damage she's done to me.


A:  David's Answer:  First, you'd no longer be able to bring up the issue of emancipation as a defense, as the children are already over 21. As for her violating the stipulation, a fuller assessment would be needed as one would need to know (a) what the violations were, and (b) whether you sent a default notice letter to her addressing each & every violation. Schedule a consult with an Orange/Westchester Child Support attorney.  -- David Bliven, Westchester Child Support attorney (www.blivenlaw.net)